Life gets to be routine. And the routine is uninspiring, not just for writers but for everyone. Whether it’s something as mundane as cooking a meal or doing laundry or something as creative as writing, when you do the same thing day after day, you get sick of it. You need to shake it up a bit. It doesn’t take much.
All it took for us was a trip to New York City.
Big deal, you say. Yes, we both live in/near another big city not that far away from New York, but Philadelphia is light years from New York in many of the ways that matter. This isn’t a bad thing. It’s why we both love our city so much. Flash mobs and subway strikes aside, in a lot of ways Philly feels like the small towns Emery and I grew up in in Michigan, just a lot of them all jammed together. New York does NOT feel like that.
We probably wouldn’t have gone on our own, but our friend Scarlet was doing a reading at a radical bookstore down on the Lower East Side on Friday and a radio show the following morning and asked us if we wanted to go with her for moral support. I jumped at the chance, because as much as I love Philly, New York is my fantasy city. Emery followed a little more slowly, to the point where Scarlet and I forbade her from backing out.
It was the perfect weekend, the first good weekend of spring, sixty-five degrees and sunny the entire time. We’d taken an apartment in the LES instead of getting a hotel, which was the best decision we could have made. It was right in the heart of the restaurant/nightclub scene, with so much great food all around us, including the cupcake bar right around the corner. We had intended to go to Little Italy and Chinatown for meals, but ended up never leaving an eight block radius of our apartment. We didn’t need to. Everything was right there. And for those few days, we were residents of one of the hippest neighborhoods in New York. It was like pretending to be one of the cool kids and getting away with it. It was liberating.
Of course, what goes up must come down, and we were forced to return to our lives here in Philly, with 9-5 jobs and kids and cats and commitments. But somehow getting to step into that other life for a few days was enough to shake things loose. Emery’s started trying to come at her projects from a different direction, and I got inspired for the first time in a long time on a story of my own. And we have a pretty strong bunny for India that’s incubating (yes, I know, I’m mixing my lifeforms. Eggs + bunnies = Spring/Easter. I win.) that we WILL start working on after Emery’s family visit next week. ::eyes Emery threateningly::
And we’re already planning our next escape.
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